Textbook Secure — Don't Lose This One

This is exactly what people mean by secure. You fight and they're back at the conversation the same day. Not running is the core of this type. Say you're struggling and they don't redirect, they listen it through. When you cry they're there — not because they're good with words, but because they don't leave the room. They volunteer their feelings too, including the ones that don't flatter them. Contact is predictable, and when they're late you get a reason, so you never end up interpreting alone. Raise something that hurt and the defence doesn't come first; they take it and adjust. Don't assume this combination is common. Most relationship trouble starts when two or three of these are missing. Keep it. And next to someone like this, your own anxiety tends to drop as well.