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Partner Red Flag Test

Is the person you're seeing a green-flag gem or a slow-motion disaster? 12 behavior signals score them across friendship, money, conflict, boundaries, and trust — with an honest 6-tier verdict. (Fair warning: this one might keep you up tonight.)

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What this red flag detector measures

This test scores your partner's behavior across 12 everyday signals — how they talk about friends and family, how they react when you're slow to reply, how they handle conflict, time, and money, what comes out when you say "no" or "that's enough," and what happens at the bottom of the bottle. Twelve signals you usually miss in the early months when chemistry is doing the talking.

Your result is a number from 0 to 36 mapped to a six-tier verdict — from a green-flag gem to major red flags worth a careful exit plan. Use it as a checklist, not a diagnosis. A high score doesn't automatically mean it's over, and a low score doesn't automatically mean safe. The real signal is which question made you hesitate the most.

Each result card pairs a six-tier verdict with a concrete next move you can take right where things are. The most useful part of this test isn't the number — it's remembering which question you stalled on.

Possible Results

Which type are you?

Green-Flag Gem — The Kind You Want To Keep

Green-Flag Gem — The Kind You Want To Keep

Mostly Green — Quietly Solid

Mostly Green — Quietly Solid

Mixed Signals — Warm and Cold

Mixed Signals — Warm and Cold

Caution — Too Many Yellow Flags

Caution — Too Many Yellow Flags

Take the Test Now!

Is the person you're seeing a green-flag gem or a slow-motion disaster? 12 behavior signals score them across friendship, money, conflict, boundaries, and trust — with an honest 6-tier verdict. (Fair warning: this one might keep you up tonight.)

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