Is Your Partner Secure or Avoidant?
This one measures them, not you. Twelve observable behaviours — do they go quiet after a fight, what happens when you say you're struggling — across six tiers, from textbook secure to a brick wall.
What's My Role in My Friend Group?

When your friend is going through it, you make them feel like the whole world is rooting for them — because in your mind, it is. Full emotional investment, no judgment, 100% their corner. "I know, you're completely right" comes naturally. Being around you feels like a warm hug for the soul.
Your friend's new relationship news hits you like it's your own. "WAIT. Tell me everything." You feel every high and low with them — and your enthusiasm for their love life is completely sincere.
Your friend has a big presentation? You're sending three texts of encouragement before 9am. "You're going to crush it." "I mean it." "You're literally so good at this." And you mean every word.
Your wallet loosens the second you're hanging out with your people. "We should try this." "Oh we're doing that." You're not spending money, you're creating experiences. At least that's what you tell yourself.
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